Elsa tried to warn me, but I couldnt hear. this also sounds a bit like my own synastry with a crazy Sun/Gem Moon/Sag man. but they just made it private. You will find yourself smitten to this house person. Does this mean that the love is just hidden, or doesn't really exsist at all and it's all in my imagination? Im all thumbs up, though, for those who do not nave the bad effects of a 12th House synastry. My gemini sun, cancer north node are in my 12th. And yes, it plays out just you would think it does. How would Saturn and Mars play out in 12the in synastry?? But we do know a lot more about it than we did some time ago. Definitely feels fated/destined/telepathic/psychic. He does remind me of a father figure in a way. I've noticed a few times I have had this placement with somone I care very deeply about, but for some reason the feelings are never mutual. He indeed often told me that we do have a strong connection. I was more into him from the very beginning I went after HIM and found out that he really resented it. Those this mean that he's thinking about me a lot too? It is spiritual for both people, but sometimes this is why the relationships seem to be so painful if they end. and yes check your saturn sometimes saturn can point to what you don't likebut then again it cam be good and make you feel comfortable with someomethats why overall picture of synastry is so important!!!!! I act so stupid around him and he makes it hard for me to think properly at all. I have not experienced personal planets in particular Sun, Moon, Venus, and Mars as being all that great placed inside the 12th house. But he is confused how I feel this way without needing anything. I actually feel I treated him wrong although he was a person whos been there for me when I was going through the hard time. Problem is that I feel like I know his soul. The 12th house and Neptune can be very painful, the lingering kind. Right up to this year I have still been battling my feelings in re: to the guy I was totally swept away by. NO THANKS!!! I understand this. i had experience with a guy who have 4 benefic planets in my 12th house. I no longer see our reflection of each other I only see himself popping up in my mind here and there, but he now seems dark, untrustworthy, and truly not worth my time. How do you reckon you and him approach 12th house matters like spirituality, illusion, Neptune stuff? I ran into him the other day out of the blue and he said hi but it was too painful for me to even confront him and I was so mad for so long. The 12th House & Synastry When you have a 12th house connection in synastry and your natal planets fall in their 12th house, this can make you have difficulties expressing whatever that planet governs in the relationship (or vice versa if it's their natal planet falling in your 12th house). These are unconscious impulses as well as the forbidden desires at least tried to suppress. My sun, mercury, Venus and Jupiter conjunct his Pluto in the 12th. Too late I realized that I loved him unconditionally. At last i also found out that he was hidding some parts of his life. where is your Neptune? Hello Everyone,I can relate to alot of the post that I've read. He is much older than me, far better positioned, with flaws, yet a hero to me. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. The subconscious is full of stuff that we don't even know about, not consciously anyway but our dreams often show us what's in here. My heart tells me he secretly feels the same way, but the 12th house can have issues of delusion, so only time will truly tell. Just count your blessings for the dance you experienced, and move on to someone/something new. Ironically, your experience sounds much like my own, excepting my 12th Houser turned mean and abusive, even though I was ARMS OPEN to him at all times. He seem to know all about me even i don't tell or exposed my darkest psyche to him. Gah! But what made it all so compelling, is that I REMEMBERED HIM FROM TWO PAST LIVES when we were mates!! We are from different countries. This is because there are endless ways these things can play. The Ascendant person feels an unconditional love when the other one is around. He was a cancer rising, Scorpio moon, sun in Gemini in the 12th. Each person shares secrets, and even unconsciously. He inspires it or mirrors it and you feel close to him because of this. I made our synastry. Well you can imagine how the proposition to be his off-time mistress set with my Midhaven in Aries. Long time away for me. At least I know I'm not the only one who is going through this. I will try to expand on it in greater detail for ya, so check back:). It ended when I invited him to my fathers birthday and he just couldnt do it (insert childhood issue here). So the conversations might be heavy and deep, or they are at least exposing of one whether good or bad. His Mars conjunct my Saturn opposite my Pluto. Will you tell me what this mean in synastry? It is because mars is a harsher planet? The Venus person embodies the ideal partner of the Juno person. Disappointments come because we think there is something more even when the person has clearly said there's not. =). Venus-Uranus in Synastry May 10, 2013 astrologyplace Those with Venus conjunct, square, or opposite Uranus in Synastry create exciting sparks in relationships. If venus is strong and well aspected than here is deep emotional and truthworthy conection. Where your Venus falls in your partner's chart shows where you bring these energies into their life. My north node in Cancer in the 12th conjuncts his venus and mercury. I have something of a business relationship with someone. Juno in Twelfth House. He was everything I wanted from a man, he broke all my barriers, and he was what I want to become as we run in more or less same line of business. Wowza:) Mars conjunct Mars and Sun conjunct sun? i have a guy who i'm so into him , he have his sun, venus, mercury and jupiter in gemini on my 12th house. Also with another friend who showed interest and I really just wanted to remain on a friend basis. Oh yes i read about that but hes not like that at all. Just not every second. Im sorry you went through that. Someone I love very deeply has his Venus and Sun and Jupiter and Mercury in my 12th house (actually, his Venus is tightly conjunct my ascendant and as I ignore his time of birth, it can fall also in my 1st house). Now, I broke off the friendship and he can't contact me. I am the 12th house person. Now i understand the mystery of the house that touch our soul. I find your insight very helpful. He knows exactly how I feel about him because I've told him precisely and he doesn't feel the same way but he is always so concerned about if I'm dating/talking with anyone. It might be like having an itch you cant scratch. If he has Moon/Cancer, just know that you are dealing with an emotional and sensitive soul, which of course will make him insecure in his dealings with you. Now i know why. Birthday Report Package Deluxe Transit Report 1 Year Get A Natal Chart ReportProgressed Chart Report Deluxe Asteroids Report Get A Solar Return Report Get A Lunar Return Report Child Natal Report 1 Year Transit Report Outer Planets, Find Your Soulmate Saturn Transit the 12th House Using Astrology To Get What You Want, Predicting Violence In Relationship: Mars in Synastry. He understands me in a very deep level. So Im confused about being confused lol Im dating someone all of our planets are 12th house but my natal chart is 12th house filled already.. everyone in his family knows about me and everyone in my family knows about him they know were also expecting a baby and so does social media lol .. Its completely one sided, I have no hope. I have a venus in capricornso yes it is hard for me to let my feelings out..I don't expect to say I love youI just assume you should know it by my actions but for me on the other hand, I would need some reassurance from my partner. I'm currently talking to someone where my Moon, Mercury, Venus and Jupiter fall into their 12th house. My ex-12th Houser has Venus/Cancer which made it difficult for him to open up, unless it was totally on HIS terms. I know I can read him more accurately than anyone else in his life and it scares him sometimes. Every time I talk to him about something, I feel loved and at peace. In synastry, when someone's Venus is in your 2nd House, this person is a supportive influence for you. It is a hard process . Not in a bad way though. what a selfish!so far i have involved in guys where my venus lied in their twelve house, it was love but felt like hidden agenda, holly crap! Never felt this way in my life. I kept believing he felt the same as I did, but that for this reason he couldnt give into it. Long story short, we both loved each other but it didn't work out for various reasons (I suspect fear and insecurity was the main issue - karmic connection). Take the love goggles off. It's very common to do with placements in this house. He doesnt want a relationship but he wants you to feed some unstated emotional void so he keeps you strung along with longing stares and subtle flirtations. And there is a very strong square between his Mars and my own, which creates a lot of stress between us at times, and his Saturn is square my Venus. i do notice that if someone has 12th house moon and im also 12th moon, we mirror eachother. Once around, up and down was TOO much for that villian! Often taking hour long walks around town/woods just the two of us, talking endlessly.I just see ALL this Neptunian energy and wonder if there is even a point of pursuing him that way rather than just staying really, really good friends. As he has moved on, you must do also. However, I still cannot get him out of my headlike there is no better man out there. When Im with him its like everything else in the world just melts away. One thing for sure, 12th house relationships are Karmic. The moon represents our instincts, our moods, our feelings and emotional responses along with how we nurture, feel nurtured, the wo North and South node connections in synastry are very powerful and often fated. I can feel him there within me and he seems to be aware of things that I dont want him to be eg. Sign up for my free newsletter offering astrology forecasts, tips and tricks! I guess the best way I can describe it is as if it's partially a dream. More so after 15 years. they have told me the same.one of them told me his feelings too late after i was already in a relationship and i met the other while i was in the same one. It was beautiful and tragic, and the deepest feelings I ever had.. Wow . I trust everything happens for a reason! Even PRAY, and pray hard for them to LEAVE you, your sector, your spirit. I jokingly used to call myself serial monogamist. With the Unaspected Venus, the sensibilities would be similar to Oscar and Felix in the Odd Couple. Sometimes in teh beginng this house can be overwhelming for some becasue it's like you can see into each others soul. Sun conjunct saturnSun conjunct venusSun conjunct mercury (double whammy)Sun conjunct sun, ------------------Gemini sun 12thCancer asc 1stTaurus moon 11thTaurus venus 11thLibra mars 3rdGemini mercury 11th, Copyright 2000-2013 he is not interested, so I need to move onThe way I found of doing it is trying to understand why this happen. Leave no traces where you can be found, as these BAD 12th-Housers seem to be emotional vampires, and thus really get off on feeding off of YOU, your fears and trepidation. Be direct, ask questions, dig deep, ask for proof and confirmation. i, how ever, have only dreamt of someone who has moon in my 12th .the other person i have dreamt of has nothing in my 12th. My Sun, Jupiter, and Mercury are in Gemini and fall in his 12th house. I love him so much, I dont even know what to do with myself. i guess if the house person is non-scorpionic, or less-scorpionic perhaps, they won't run away scared because they feel they are exposed, lol If the house person is heavy-scorpio people, hmm don't even think aboutt having relationship with this peeps, they will ruuuuunnnn away asap no matter how much you mean to them. Combust! I remember I was passing by a tall guy, and in a quick thaught, I thaught: this one looks very handsome. Nonetheless it offers us the opportunity to heal karma, overcome our fears, uncover hidden talents and gifts, and to truly see the mystical, magical spiritual world. At least in a romantic situation, often what happens is that the house person doesn't "feel" or has a hard time seeing the love of the Venus person. Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). It s killing me . The Ascendant person feels an unconditional love when the other one is around. His sun, mercury, Neptune fall in my 8th house. Well, your handle actually matches his Cancer placements, as the Keywords for Cancer is I FEEL, and that is the key to him. With the negative aspect, the "Plutonian" personality can show jealousy and possessive tendencies toward the "Venusian" one, trying . Fatherly type things like that. I love them unconditionally, to the point like they are flawless in my eyes. My Gemini sun is in my 12th house on the Gemini/Cancer cusp. Take it like a grain of salt and more of insecurity on their behalf. 12th house isnt only secrecy and I rarely see it that way 12th house synastry is beyond limits. Accept all plexaderm rapid reduction serum in india Manage preferences. thanks for visiting! Can someone help shed some light to what it means? You could have an unwavering affection for this individual. Then when I tell him, he has this quiet way of breaking through all the **** and getting to the heart of it, but in a really gentle way. Being with your spouse causes you to become more reflective and thoughtful. But I was raised by a Sun/Scorpio mother (with her Moon in Sagittarius) and Virgo ASC. Can he just not see it because of this placement? Is your 12th house tenanted then? Negatively, the planet person can use any of these fears as a way to control them, manipulate them or to use against them in some way. Any help would be greatly appreciated.p.s., any planet people willing to share their experience with their planets in someone's 12th would also be appreciated, As far as who feels what.. it would make sense they both would feel it since one persons planet is being housed ( in a environment) therefore the planet is being influenced also by the house person in their approach and the others is bringing the energy influence. be on the look out for that cute Pisces man with an Air Moon and a Fire Mars. Neptune idealizes, and makes everything much more beautiful it rules feelings of ecstacy, perfection and the feelings of soulmates but he's a tricky fella once we fall from the high, it's hard to get over.It's not usually til much later we want to slap ourselves when the Neptune fog clears and reality set's in. I either lied to myself or the other was lying to me and it was very difficult and painful to deal with. Only because I feel his Mars in my subconscious,yelling at me to do better and not understanding that I dont respond well to that. One is Taurus and the other is Libra. I'm not all that great with articulating stuff that's not of this world. These are actions of some type. Venus the Goddess of love represents our love nature, our desires, our desire for the good things in life, our style, the way we act to attract, what we attract along with what we value and what we have or want. Tense aspects can be difficult to overcome.